At this point, the question to be asked is, "what is my ultimate goal in enrolling your child into a martial arts program?" If your answer is to improve their confidence, social skills, focus, respect, discipline, and last but not least, become bully-proof, then none of that will take place without a real commitment on your part. And quite honestly, without said commitment on your part, it just won't be worth all the work we put in to train them initially. Martial arts training is unlike any other sport or activity. It's a type of education that can't be instilled in just a few months.